Debbie Beard and Amanda Thorpe open up on losing husbands

Two women united by a profound personal tragedy have met for the first time at a special event aimed at integrating mental health support into sports at all levels. The gathering marked the launch of a nationwide toolkit backed by the Prince of Wales and the Royal Foundation.

During the event, Debbie Beard and Amanda Thorpe shared their experiences of loss. Debbie lost her husband, former Liverpool Women manager Matt Beard, who died in hospital on 20 September 2025 in what is believed to be suicide, pending the conclusion of an inquest.

Stock photo for illustration only, not from the actual event

They spoke with BBC business editor Simon Jack, who himself lost his father to suicide when he was 17 years old. The online resource package, named On Your Side, is designed to ensure suicide prevention becomes as fundamental to sports as warm-ups, training sessions, and match performances.

Reflecting on the signs prior to the tragedy, Debbie noted behavioral shifts in her late husband. Amid poor team performance and heavy social media abuse, Matt kept his struggles hidden from the public eye and media, often venting at home to shield his family from worry. She also recalled sudden changes including a surprising dismissal, increased alcohol consumption, and risk-taking behaviors.